God transforms us one area at a time.
Sometimes our brains are our own worst enemy because grace isn't logical.
Responsibility is good for your soul
But difficult situations and wrong choices conspire to trap us in hopelessness.
Make rules and follow rules as needed, but don't focus on riles. Focus on faith. Focus on grace. Focus on Jesus.
What we do on Sunday absolutely doesn't matter unless it meets us on Monday. Changes us on Monday. Transforms us on Monday.