If someone tries to use you as a tool, you shouldn't mind it, because it is their choice and folly, not yours.
None of us like to think we are silly. But all must acknowledge that they are capable of silliness, from time to time
To marry is to narrow one's possibilities horribly.
It is presumptuous to draw conclusions about a person from what one has heard
I can always forgive where I understand.
I am afraid I shall disappoint people's expectations dreadfully.