So often I heard people paying blind obeisance to change - as though it had some virtue of its own. Change or we will die. Change or we will stagnate. Evergreens don't stagnate.
Judith Perelman RossnerIt takes far less courage to kill yourself than it takes to wake up one more time. It is harder to stay where you are than to get out.
Judith Perelman RossnerHe always said she was smart, but their conversations were a mined field in which at any moment she might make the wrong verbal move and find her ignorance exploding in her face.
Judith Perelman RossnerIn psychoanalysis as in art, God resided in the details, the discovery of which required enormous patience, unyielding seriousness, and the skill of an acrobat - walking a tightrope over memory and speculation, instinct and theory, feeling and denial.
Judith Perelman RossnerThat's the New York thing, isn't it. People who seem absolutely crazy going around telling you how crazy they used to be before they had therapy.
Judith Perelman RossnerIdentity is a bag and a gag. Yet it exists for me with all the force of a fatal disease. Obviously I am here, a mind and a body. To say there's no proof my body exists would be arty and specious and if my mind is more ephemeral, less provable, the solution of being a writer with solid (touchable, tearable, burnable) books is as close as anyone has come to a perfect answer.
Judith Perelman Rossner