When youโre young you prefer the vulgar months, the fullness of the seasons. As you grow older you learn to like the in-between times, the months that canโt make up their minds. Perhaps itโs a way of admitting that things canโt ever bear the same certainty again.
Julian BarnesLoving humanity means as much, and as little, as loving raindrops, or loving the Milky Way. You say that you love humanity? Are you sure you arenโt treating yourself to easy self-congratulation, seeking approval, making certain youโre on the right side?
Julian BarnesYou grew old first not in your own eyes, but in other people's eyes; then, slowly, you agreed with their opinion of you.
Julian Barnes