Pride makes us long for a solution to things โ a solution, a purpose, a final cause; but the better telescopes become, the more stars appear.
Julian BarnesTo look at ourselves from afar, to make the subjective suddenly objective: this gives us a psychic shock.
Julian BarnesNature is so exact, it hurts exactly as much as it is worth, so in a way one relishes the pain. If it didn't matter, it wouldn't matter.
Julian BarnesHow often do we tell our own life story? How often do we adjust, embellish, make sly cuts? And the longer life goes on, the fewer are those around to challenge our account, to remind us that our life is not our life, merely the story we have told about our life. Told to others, but โ mainly โ to ourselves.
Julian Barnes