We're accepted as long as we conform to what we are expected to be, and I'm sure that's not any different for anyone else.

Tell her that you love her hair, that you love her skin, her lips, because, in truth, you love them more than you love your own.

We all have a blind spot and it's shaped exactly like us.

Shot at twenty-seven times - what a Dominican number.

As a Dominican man, you're socialized to be a playboy. You spend a lot of time being taught that women are important, but without the really positive framework of why. You figure out quickly it's because of culo (ass). But there is a sense that it's not that simple.

We know story collections end when they end, as well - the pages serving as a countdown - but nevertheless the standard story anthology hews closer to what makes being human so hard: it reminds you with each story how quickly everything we are, everything we call our lives can change, can be upended, can disappear. Never to return.

When people are always telling you that you have to have a lot of women, women are very important, there's a chance that you might actually begin to observe them on a more fundamental level. Then you get so much focus that one day you might actually see. Dominican men are told to look at women all the time, but they're definitely not told to see them.