Forgiveness makes you feel better. As soon as you forgive, you're free.
The more bad choices you make, the less bad your choices seem.
Never be passive. Victories happen when you take charge of a game. You can't win by playing not to lose".
You're gifted to do something.
A verse came to mind, one that has comforted Kari before. It was the shortest verse in the Bible: Jesus wept. If he cried over Jerusalem, if he cried over the death of Lazarus, surely he was crying now over the death of her dreams, the death of her marriage.
You need to have time to really hear God.