For every veteran who goes through a divorce, a wife goes through one, too. For every veteran alone in the basement, there is a wife upstairs, bewildered, isolated and in despair from the dark clouds of war that hangs over family life.

When the peace treaty is signed, the war isn't over for the veterans, or the family. It's just starting.

Quitting is unthinkable and pain is just weakness leaving the body

Everything is touched by the holy when it is in the presence of death.

I don't want any romantics to go into the military. I'm not a pacifist. I think we need a military, and the better one we have, the better off we are. I don't want kids going in there thinking that it's John Wayne on Iwo Jima. That's not healthy.

Cynicism is no more mature than naïveté. You're no more mature, just more burned.

Victory in combat is like sex with a prostitute. For a moment you forget everything in the sudden physical rush, but then you have to pay your money to the woman showing you the door. You see the dirt on the walls and your sorry image in the mirror.