I don't want any romantics to go into the military. I'm not a pacifist. I think we need a military, and the better one we have, the better off we are. I don't want kids going in there thinking that it's John Wayne on Iwo Jima. That's not healthy.

He lay before God as a woman opens herself to a man, with legs apart, stomach exposed, arms open. But unlike some women, he did not have the inner strength that allowed them to do such a thing without fear. There was no woman’s strength in Mellas at all.

Cynicism is no more mature than naïveté. You're no more mature, just more burned.

I mean... if you're raised as a decent human being, killing somebody is against every moral thing you've ever been taught. And so, generally, in combat it's 'krauts,' the 'gooks,' the 'yanks' - whatever you want to do to try and make it so that it's not a human being.

When the peace treaty is signed, the war isn't over for the veterans, or the family. It's just starting.

Quitting is unthinkable and pain is just weakness leaving the body

Once we recognize our shadow's existence we must resist the enticing step of going with its flow.