If you feel lucky, then you are.

It's vital to learn how to make the best of things.

Maybe the past is supposed to fade-and that's actually a kindness of human memory.

That's what just hit me: How you really can't have everything. You have to give up the old to get the new. You can't be the child and the mom at the same time. You can't be your young self and your old self at the same time. You can't know what you know now and feel the way you did then. You can't, you can't, you can't.

Sometimes there is no way to hold your life together. Sometimes things just have to fall apart.

All my main characters are people I'd love to sit around having coffee with. They are people who will tell you honestly about the things that scare them and worry them and trouble them. Because those moments of connection between women-when they really decide to be honest with each other about their lives-are some of the best things in life.

Look for beauty in everything.