I don't make big grand gestures, generally.
If I have to be focused and watch what I say, then I have to be comfortable.
Guys are much more obvious than they think they are.
I always assume I look better than I actually do. I'll feel pretty good about myself when I leave the house, then I'll see a picture and think, 'Crap, I had no idea that's what I was looking like.'
I look back at my twenties and see that I was much less confident.
I'm realising now that I can't just blurt things out.