You can't do all the work, so surround yourself with people you trust; if this is your show then everything is ultimately your call, but the more faith you have in people who have proven to be capable, the more sane you get to be.
True fans can't ruin shows.
I collaborate with people who know I'm a control freak.
I tweet too much. I can't even pretend it's because I'm talking to fans.
To my credit, I think I'm a gentle control freak. Maybe even a little manipulative.
I tweet because it allows me to say anything I want and sometimes people respond.