Relationships do change throughout the course of your life, and I always think in terms of relationships changing and evolving rather than starting and stopping.

Don't accept less than what it is that you know that you want. Don't allow someone to be a jerk. Don't allow someone to disrespect you. Listen to the bigger voice in your head telling you that you deserve the best, whatever that is whatever that is you decide you like for yourself. It may differ from what I like or what is ideal for me. But the bottom line is to never accept less than what you know you deserve.

Be true to yourself, and stick with who you are through thick and thin without letting anyone dilute your essence.

It's about prioritizing. Just take it one step at a time. Do the best that you can. I'm a mom and I have two husbands - an ex husband and a next husband. It's a blended family and it's very hard to keep things together, but we're happy and we live in love. Djimon and I are so happy.

'Fabulosity' is to get up when you've been kicked down, and it's not to go after who kicked you down.

I love when people walk into my house and start grinning: "This is too much - this is so you!" Why give people brown cardboard when you can give them embroidered, crystal-flecked organza?

If you're shy, get the hell over it: You're slamming the door in your own face.