I met rich men and they became my boyfriends. When I was a kept woman'it was a relationship.
Kola BoofI have never turned a trick in my life, and I just resent the American definitions of โsex slaveโ and โprostituteโ so much. I was a mistress!
Kola BoofAs for developing a writing style'I would say that I tried to copy the pacing of the old movies I loved as a kid.
Kola BoofI'm not talking about my children's father'he's a wonderful black man, the hero of my life, and he's never disrespected or betrayed me. But I'm talking about what I see in the streets and in the media, this naked hatred that black men have towards the authentic black woman'which is really an indication of black men's hatred for blackness itself.
Kola BoofI'm an African woman, I suppose these thoughts torture me more than they do black American people, because it's like watching my own children trapped in a car that's sinking to the bottom of a lake and being impotent to save them'the black Americans have their own holocaust going on. You see the black man erasing black children from the landscape, you see black women desperately trying to get the black man's attention by wearing blonde hair and fake blue eyes, 500 years after he sold her and their children across the ocean.
Kola Boof