I feel as if I'm going through a mid-life crisis. I don't feel very attractive and it's like I'm frigid or something. I'm aging and it makes me very sad.

I value men and I don't necessarily want to adopt the man's role, but I do want to see women's humanity honored and respected.

As for feminism, I am a womanist more than I'm a feminist.

Race means family and all black people whether they like it or not, are family.

What makes me angry'is that it wasn't me who revealed that I had been with Osama Bin Laden. I originally denied being involved with Osama when the London Guardian threatened to 'out' me.

I'm not a 'strong warrior queen' like people think. I spend most of my day cooking and doing things with my sons.

I love cooking for men and making love with them'not just reproductive lovemaking but I like sex for the sake of freaking out with men.