To lead people, walk behind them.
He who knows how to be aggressive, and yet remains patient, becomes a receptacle for all of Nature's lessons.
The net of heaven is very wide in its meshes, and yet it misses nothing.
Excellent soldiers are not furious.
Let muddy water stand and it will become clear.
Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained.