Heaven's Way gives no favors. It always remains with good people.

Before healing others, heal yourself

As for the "proper way:" it is the beginning of disorder.

The heavy is the root of the light. The tranquil is the ruler of the hasty.

Knowing the bright, but clinging to the dark, you become a model to the world.

Force is followed by loss of strength. This is not the way of the Tao. That which goes against the Tao comes to an early end.

A violent wind does not last for a whole morning.