Those who have the courage to dare will perish. Those who have the courage not to dare will live.
LaoziIf the sage wants to stand above people, he must speak to them from below. If he wants to lead people, he must follow them from behind.
LaoziPride attaches undue importance to the superiority of one's status in the eyes of others; and shame is fear of humiliation at one's inferior status in the estimation of others. When one sets one's heart on being highly esteemed, and achieves such rating, then he or she is automatically involved in fear of losing status.
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