Can you love or guide someone without any kind of expectation?
Sometimes gain comes from losing, and sometimes loss comes from gaining.
Be truly whole, and all things will return to you.
When the Way is lost there is virtue. When virtue is lost there is benevolence. When benevolence is lost there is righteousness. When righteousness is lost there are rituals.
Stop thinking, and end your problems.
We are all capable of much more than we think we are.