Develop the strength of a man, but live as gently as a woman
The subtlest of subtleties, this is the gateway to all mysteries.
Some have lavish garments, carry sharp swords, and feast on food and drink. They possess more than they can spend. This is called the vanity of robbers. It is certainly not the Way.
He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.
Don't impose your will through manipulation of aggressive emotions and actions.
These possessions of a simpleton being the three I choose and cherish: to care, to be fair, to be humble.