Be the chief but never the lord.
The Tao never acts with force, yet there is nothing that it can not do.
Leadership is your ability to hide your panic from others.
Keeping plenty of gold and jade in the palace makes no one able to defend it.
Greed for enlightenment and immortality is no different than greed for material wealth. It is self-centered and dualistic, and thus an obstacle to true attainment. Therefore these states are never achieved by those who covet them; rather, they are the reward of the virtuous.
Find a teacher who is an integral being, a beacon who extends his light and virtue with equal ease to those who appreciate him and those who don't. Shape yourself in his mold, bathe in his nourishing radiance, and reflect it out to the rest of the world.