Warriors say: I dare not be like the host, but would rather be like the guest. I dare not advance an inch, but would rather retreat a foot.
LaoziTo be brave without compassion, generous without moderation, and rule without refraining from being first in the world, are certain deaths.
LaoziI have three treasures that I cherish. The first is compassion. The second is moderation. The third is not claiming to be first in the world.
Laozi