When you have accomplished your goal simply walk away. This is the path way to Heaven.
As for the "proper way:" it is the beginning of disorder.
It is wisdom to know others. It is enlightenment to know oneself.
The best way to live / is to be like water / For water benefits all things / and goes against none of them.
Rule your mind with serenity rather than with force and manipulation.
Is not the space between Heaven and Earth like a bellows? It is empty, but lacks nothing. The more it moves, the more comes out of it.