The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao. The name that can be named is not the eternal Name.
LaoziThe best soldier does not attack. The superior fighter succeeds without violence. The greatest conqueror wins without struggle. The most successful manager leads without dictating. This is intelligent non aggressiveness.
LaoziThey can see their neighbors. Roosters and dogs can be heard from there. Still, they will age and die without visiting one another.
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