Being is born of not being.
Who can rest until the moment of action?
Those who know are not learned. Those who are learned do not know.
As for the "proper way:" it is the beginning of disorder.
. . . the mind is desperate to fix the river {of events} in place: Possessed by ideas of the past, preoccupied with images of the future, it overlooks the plain truth of the moment.
The one who rules like the mother lasts long.