Can you dissolve your ego? Can you abandon the idea of self and other? Can you relinquish the notions of male and female, short and long, life and death? Can you let go of all these dualities and embrace the Tao without skepticism or panic? If so, you can reach the heart of the Integral Oneness.
LaoziThe True Person benefits yet expects no reward, does the work and moves on. There is no desire to be considered better than others.
LaoziThere is no greater mistake than to make light of an enemy By making light of an enemy many a kingdom has been lost.
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