Favor and disgrace are like fear. Favor is in a higher place, and disgrace in a lower place. When you win them you are like being in fear, and when you lose them you are also like being in fear. So favor and disgrace are like fear.
LaoziHope and fear are both phantoms that arise from thinking of the self. When we don't see the self as self, what do we have to fear?
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