To be brave without compassion, generous without moderation, and rule without refraining from being first in the world, are certain deaths.
LaoziSincere words are not fine; fine words are not sincere. Those who are skilled (in the Tao) do not dispute (about it); the disputatious are not skilled in it. Those who know (the Tao) are not extensively learned; the extensively learned do not know it.
Laozi