The sage knows himself, but does not parade. He cherishes himself, but does not praise himself.
LaoziAccept disgrace willingly... Accept being unimportant... Surrender yourself humbly; then you can be trusted to care for all things. Love the world as your own self; then you can truly care for all things.
LaoziBeing deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
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