Men leave women for other women. Women leave men for another way of life.

But writers experience the world and themselves in a unique way. We look for meaning. We see it even when we are not paying attention, which is seldom because, as writers, paying attention is what we do. We are scribes to the ticking of the days, and we have a job to do. We are not at peace unless we are doing it.

We need to break free from the habits of mind and behavior, to discover the possibilities of who we can become.

In the life of a real writer, nothing is ever lost, no word you write is a waste of your time or energy.

If you’ve ever wondered why some writers who, in your humble opinion, don’t write as well as you do yet are rich and famous while you struggle onward, this is the reason. They are great directors.

Men leave women for other women. Women leave men for another way of life.

Remember, the essence of storytelling demands that we place our main characters on a path. A quest with something at stake, with something to do, to achieve, to learn, and to change.