Losing a child is probably the singular most horrible thing.
Women seem not to understand, or underestimate, the profound power they have over their husbands.
I pretty much preach, teach and nag.
That which is horrifying to you don't do to anybody else.
Venting every feeling isn't mature. Learning to deal with uncomfortable and unpleasant feelings is an important aspect of maturity.
Principles don't mean anything until they cost you something.