If you're gay or lesbian, it's a biological error that inhibits you from relating normally to the opposite sex.

This is all you have. This is not a dry run. This is your life. If you want to fritter it away with your fears, then you will fritter it away, but you won't get it back later.

When you choose wrong because it suits you right now, the message you give others is that when it suits you, you may likely do wrong again. You become a threat and liability to others. That's a pragmatic reason, outside of pride in morality, not to do wrong.

Never do anything that you aren't prepared to face the true consequences of.

I think it was much better when you got on your horse and rode two miles to talk to your neighbor.

The path to solid, supportive, healthy relationships, self-respect, and a quality life starts with the usually painful decision to do the Right Thing.

Make decisions from the strong part of you, not the weak.