When you change yourself to win someone's heart, you better be prepared to accept that this will now be your way of life forever.
I think it was much better when you got on your horse and rode two miles to talk to your neighbor.
Distance lasts a day. But Reality lasts a lifetime.
Losing a child is probably the singular most horrible thing.
Make decisions from the strong part of you, not the weak.
So it is the fear, weakness, selfishness, and cowardice of onlookers that permit evil behavior to persist.