When you're the victim of the behavior, it's black and white; when you're the perpetrator, there are a million shades of gray.
Laura SchlessingerIt is attitude, infinitely more than circumstance, that determines the quality of life. Life is often quite tough, challenging us to choose between seemingly esoteric, intangible ideals and getting goodies or good vibes right now. You have character when you most often choose ideals.
Laura Schlessinger