So it is the fear, weakness, selfishness, and cowardice of onlookers that permit evil behavior to persist.

Psychology doesn't like to talk about evil. It likes to talk about bad childhoods. But I very much believe that some people are evil and motivation is not necessary for evil.

People with integrity do what they say they are going to do. Others have excuses.

I pretty much preach, teach and nag.

Somehow we've even developed the notion that a woman who seeks to meet her husband's needs is subservient (but a husband who fails to meet his wife's needs is a pig.)

There is no movement without our own resistance.

When you're the victim of the behavior, it's black and white; when you're the perpetrator, there are a million shades of gray.