Everyone is in the same situation, at different levels and in different places.
The less I have, the freer I am to do whatever I want to do.
I get out, I get out of all your boxes.
And what you need ironically. Will turn out what you want to be. If you just let it.
I wouldn't try to put myself in a box or put God in a box.
Love and this close-knit family structure really helped to give me the confidence. To know that you have family to go back to is a help. It doesn't always happen biologically. Sometimes God gives you family in other forms, but I was very blessed. I have a very strong biological family.