I think the first trick to writing a feminist work is to write plenty of women. That way you get to write characters, instead of worrying about paradigms.
And there's nothing wrong with being a lizard either. Unless you were born to be a hawk.
The ox feels the yoke, but does the bird feel the weight of its wings?
The less you say, the more weight your words will carry.
When people say impossible, they usually mean improbable.
Grief had its own life, took its own sustenance.