I didn't write the memoir with any sort of intention of feeling better. I wrote the memoir because I had a weird need to write a good story. But once I was done, I did feel better about myself. Not better, just calmer. Because a tremendous onus had been lifted off my day-to-day.

I'm pretty much of the Shakespearean school. Dialogue is character. How we speak is who we are.

Most dreams are also part reality (otherwise we wouldn’t believe them), and reality happens to be a condition that gives you plenty of chances through your life to rise to - no, soar through - the occasion.

I don't think many kids question their surroundings. Everything seems so permanent and inevitable growing up, even chaos.

There are still things out there in the universe to contemplate and spend our lives chasing.

The minute I landed back in Alaska, it was back to hip boots and fish guts. This cultural flipping wasn't easy - especially on top of the post-divorce fighting that was still going on between my parents. But this is why you don't write a memoir at age fourteen.

My mom was a social worker. I had a pretty good idea of what the authorities can do when a parent's not around.