If you get a wrinkle, I don't feel that's indicative of your losing ground. That's ridiculous.
I think love changes you over time, and whether you have good or bad experiences, you always grow and learn from them.
I want an identity outside of my work.
I'm not sure I ever want to get married.
I love Edith Wharton. And I love old New York. Anything to do with New York.
Follow your gut and your heart. You'll almost always make the right choice.