I feel like so much more than my gender and so much more than my relationship to my body and my relationship to men. And, but suddenly you're sort of asked to be an expert.

I've always had a talent for recognizing when I am in a moment worth being nostalgic for.

I always thought the saddest feeling in life is when you're dancing in a really joyful way and then you hit your head on something.

It's not that I don't want to hear about that [blow job] stuff, I just want to hear about it immediately. And I want to hear about it on more comfortable terms.

Don't wait around for someone else to tell your story. Do it yourself by whatever means necessary.

I thought about ["Summer Sisters" ] so often as I was writing about these female characters who love each other and hated each other and were sort of in love with each other.

I've always loved my own little office spaces no matter what they were like. It's the Virginia Woolf, room of one's own concept, it's really important.