It doesn't occur to so many people that if you don't have a clear heterosexual, gender confirming identity that there are parts of day-to-day life - like using a bathroom or getting your clothes - that just aren't going to be as easy.

A girl's night for me is with a member of my family on the couch, eating takeout, watching something good, going to sleep early, it's so boring, but it's just what I need!

I never thought of myself as like, a funny person.

You should always go where there is a 'you-shaped' hole in the world.

Enjoy going through life as yourself.

But I am a girl with a keen interest in having it all, and what follows are hopeful dispatches from the frontlines of that struggle.

I would have specific books [when I was 12 or 13] that had pages that I knew had sex on them that I would go and read.