Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation. We don't love to be loved; we love to love.
Leo BuscagliaHe must understand that if he is the world's finest plum and someone he loves does not like plums, he has the choice of becoming a banana. But he must be warned that if he chooses to become a banana, he will be a second rate banana. But he can always be the best plum.
Leo Buscaglia