I asked: 'What is the meaning of my life, beyond time, cause, and space?' And I replied to quite another question: 'What is the meaning of my life within time, cause, and space?' With the result that, after long efforts of thought, the answer I reached was: 'None'.
Leo TolstoyWhen you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you'd like them to be.
Leo Tolstoy