No thoroughly occupied man was ever yet very miserable.[to feel unhappy you need the time to consider how your lot could be better]
Letitia Elizabeth LandonDo anything but love; or if thou lovest and art a woman, hide thy love from him whom thou dost worship; never let him know how dear he is; flit like a bird before him; lead him from tree to tree, from flower to flower; but be not won, or thou wilt, like that bird, when caught and caged, be left to pine neglected and perish in forgetfulness.
Letitia Elizabeth Landon