This desire to fashion, to shape, a self and a life has all but gone from a contemporary culture whose emphasis, paradoxically enough, is so much on self.
Lionel TrillingOur culture peculiarly honors the act of blaming, which it takes as the sign of virtue and intellect.
Lionel TrillingWhere misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.
Lionel TrillingReasons for not keeping a notebook: 1) the ambiguity of the reader--it is never quite oneself. 2) I usually hate the sight of my handwriting--it lives too much and I dislike its life--I mean by "lives," of course, betrays too much!
Lionel Trilling