Depression was a very active state really. Even if you appeared to an observer to be immobilized, your mind was in a frenzy of paralysis. You were unable to function, but were actively despising yourself for it.
Lisa AltherJust as you began to feel that you could make good use of time, there was no time left to you.
Lisa AltherThat's the risk you take if you change: that people you've been involved with won't like the new you. But other people who do will come along.
Lisa AltherThe human organism has only so much energy at its disposal. If you divert a great deal of it into any one channel, you can expect the others to collapse or atrophy. If you squander your vital energies on your emotional life, as you have been doing, plan to be physically and mentally bankrupt, as it were.
Lisa Alther