The human organism has only so much energy at its disposal. If you divert a great deal of it into any one channel, you can expect the others to collapse or atrophy. If you squander your vital energies on your emotional life, as you have been doing, plan to be physically and mentally bankrupt, as it were.
Lisa AltherIf this was adulthood the only improvement she could detect in her situation was that she could now eat dessert without eating her vegetables.
Lisa AltherDying was apparently a weaning process; all the attachments to familiar people and objects have to be undone.
Lisa Alther