The human organism has only so much energy at its disposal. If you divert a great deal of it into any one channel, you can expect the others to collapse or atrophy. If you squander your vital energies on your emotional life, as you have been doing, plan to be physically and mentally bankrupt, as it were.
Lisa AltherDying was apparently a weaning process; all the attachments to familiar people and objects have to be undone.
Lisa AltherThe only obvious advantage to being an adult is that you can eat your dessert without haying sampled the vegetables.
Lisa AltherI wrote for twelve years and collected 250 rejection slips before getting any fiction published, so I guess outside reinforcement isn't all that important to me.
Lisa Alther