I'm a big believer in putting things off, In fact, I even put off procrastinating. -Ella Varner

It was a train wreck happening right in front of me and I couldn't do anything about it, except that not only was I watching, I was also the train.

She wanted him to stop, but more than that, she wanted him to go on forever.

Poor people have few choices in life, and most of the time you don't think too much about it. You get the best you can and do without when necessary, and hope to God you won't be wiped out by something you can't control. But there are moments it hurts, where there is something you want in the very marrow of your bones and you know there is no way you can have it.

Slowly his resistance ebbed. She felt the change in his body, the relaxing of tension, his shoulders curving around her as if he could draw her into himself. Murmuring her name, he brought her hand to his face and nuzzled ardently into her palm, his lips brushing the warm circlet of her gold wedding band. “My love is upon you,” he whispered…and she knew then that she had won.

Win told me that one isn’t improved by being at the top of the mountain, one is improved by the climb.

I think at this point, safety isn't a feeling, it's a process. Starting with trust.