I think at this point, safety isn't a feeling, it's a process. Starting with trust.

A lack of desire is something I've never experienced. I'd have to be on my deathbed before I stopped wanting-- no, never mind, I was on my deathbed in the not-too-distant past, and even then I had the devil's own itch for my wife." -Sebastian, Lord St. Vincent

I like pessimists. They’re always the ones who bring life jackets for the boat.

This is how we court girls in America. We grab them and kiss them. And if they don't like it, we do it again, harder and longer, until they surrender. It saves us hours of witty repartee.

Set the world afire. Just let me hand you the matches.

Was this some new level of depravity? Had he developed a spinster fetish?

The question, love, is whether you want me enough to take the risk.