Don't wish to be normal. Wish to be yourself. To the hilt. Find out what you're best at, and develop it, and hopscotch your weaknesses. Wish to be great at whatever you are.
Lois McMaster BujoldWhen you canโt do something truly useful, you tend to vent the pent up energy in something useless but available, like snappy dressing.
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